So I drive a 2013 Ford Edge and can comfortably and safely fit 3 car seats in the car. I am a share nanny and watch 2 kids (4,2) m-f and the two (5,2) m/t/th, though a lot of the time I also end up watching them or one of them m-f. So when I have all 4 of them, I drive the second family's Tahoe. This is the part where I wish I knew nothing about car seat safety haha kidding sort of but being so educated on keeping them safe is really making my job difficult. In my car, the 2 year olds are still rear facing and probably will be until 3..? Not sure yet. Anyway, the 4 year old is harnessed in a harnessed booster and the 5 year old is, against my requests, in a no back booster, using the seatbelt. So when it's just the second family's two kids, they have the 2 year old's harness booster in one captains chair and the five year olds booster in the other. They fold the back seats up so they'll have a trunk. When all four kids are with me, it just makes the most sense that the older kids are in the back row because they can buckle themselves, and because there is only one top tether in the back so it only can have one ffing car seat. I've expressed that either one of the two year olds can still be rear facing here or the five year olds booster can go there. They refuse to accept either option. So every morning, I have to fold both seats back down, move E's booster to the back, install A's seat also in the back and then install C's seat in the captains chair. And then each night they do all the work to take everything out and rearrange it all so that their two kids can sit in the second row for the 5 minute drive to the gym and back. It's getting unbelievably frustrating. Especially because they have cheap seats that are so hard to install. Nothing wrong with cheap seats but if I'm going to be installing them every single freaking day, I want to use my nice Britax Clicktight seats! Haha though not ideal, I would be fine not driving all four of them, except I HAVE to to be able to pick up their 5 year old from school! Anyone have a similar issue? How do you deal?? This second family comes with SO many problems for me that it makes it really hard to want to stay. It's a share so the money is good and they're cousins so I don't feel I can quit one family and not the other. I'm just really getting to my wits end.