Hi everyone! I've been a nanny to a wonderful family with two boys, 9mo. and 4y/o for 4 months now, and they are the greatest. Ever since I started I noticed the 4y/o is easy to anger, gets overwhelmed quickly, and is always looking for space every now and then. I know that space is normal, but lately, and a few weeks ago he's been acting out a lot (having A TON of tantrums, screaming, and stomping off). The mom and I were thinking it might be an attention problem or still adjusting to the baby being here and adjusting to the balance of attention between the both of them. But, I've been doing a lot of research lately about how too many toys, choices, etc. could overwhelm a child and cause these outbreaks, tantrums, and general upsettedness. They have SO many toys, and I think it's just overwhelming his system. Have any of you nannies brought up this subject to the parents about thinking about downsizing their toys and see if their behaviour changes? I don't want to sound pushy or rude towards my boss, just more of bring it up as a suggestion, but don't really know how. Also, someone once told me about a book on this type of thing, downsizing toys and whatnot, and if anyone knows what it might be, I would love to know! Thanks so much!!