So I've been working for my nanny family for 3+ years. They have a 3 year old and a 1 year old. I just got an email asking if I would like to travel with them. One is for a week in two weeks from now and one is in August. The August one is their annual family reunion and their family is extremely snotty (I've met them on several occasions). I just wouldn't feel comfortable. The one in two weeks is a business trip I believe, but it's so short notice. I get anxiety while traveling and have a hard time doing it unless my husband is there. So to sum all of this up, I have zero interest in traveling even with the extra pay. I feel bad for saying no. How do I do it?