I help out this family for few hours each week, as does the other other nanny.(shes older and is a mum, I'm student but I'm studying early education.) today we where both there, as was one of her children. The baby woke up which is the child I always look after and she looks after the older and baby. But today was the day I normally work. The baby had not slept for long at all and got woken up, I was going to resettle but she sent her child to go and look in. I went too to go and re settle, but now the baby is wake wake.
its really frustrating I feel like because I'm the younger and not mum and even though I'm studying to be a early education educator anything I do/say is invalid because shes a mum (other nanny). Whenever shes there it feel like shes rubbing it in my face that she the main nanny, she causally through in "lets have dinner sometime" to the children's mum while I'm right there. Does being a mum(other nanny) trump being qualified educator?